And sometimes, recovery looks like staying up until 3am, watching episodes of BBC Escape to the Country, and eating strawberry shortcake with whipped cream.

Sometimes it’s a mix.

I’m doing the work. 

Accept, forgive, relax, reaffirm, THEN act.

If I act out of misery I’m extendo-mixing my misery.

If I act out of kindness it’s a much shorter road back to myself.